Women's pendulum of pride and worthlessness
We have already talked about the problem of pride and insignificance in an article about the structure of social relations. I hope you read it, otherwise, some turns of the…

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Do children need love?
Well, a little spontaneous vacation is over. We return to our neurotic and psychological sheep. The other day I received an interesting letter from one of the readers. She talks…

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Psychology of love
It's time for another provocative topic. To argue about love with a serious air would be to succumb to the general insanity on a donut hole, so we add a…

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main difficulty here

How to save a relationship?

First, a little offtopic, and then to the stated topic.

It’s hard to be a perfectionist — all or nothing, and nothing else. We have to slow down, persuade ourselves that, they say, it will do so, but there is always that border that cannot be crossed – the minimum acceptable quality level of the work done, without which the work is considered not done at all. Continue reading

About building relationships

Vacation is over. If someone misses, you can read the trip report on the forum, here: travel notes. Slowly back to work.

The advantage of such trips is that among other things it happens to meet and get close to ordinary people – not psychologists and not patients – and see how they live. Sometimes it is thought-provoking. Continue reading

Why dating sites does not work?
Because they all do wrong! No, they, of course, work - in the same sense in which probability theory promises that a flock of monkeys seated behind typewriters for a…

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Talk to each other
Another rule, just as important and fundamental as the ability to keep a distance - learn to talk with each other. Do not plop, do not gossip, do not discuss…

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Why dating sites does not work?
Because they all do wrong! No, they, of course, work - in the same sense in which probability theory promises that a flock of monkeys seated behind typewriters for a…

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Finally, oh good
Did you notice that every time I put the normality in quotes? This is because the rule I'm talking about is not. This is the same norm, as if all…

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