Take care of each other and your relationship
When you buy a new car, do you arrange your personal crash test for it? No, you blow dust from it, polish it, refuel it with the best gasoline, take…

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Relationship for relationship
Imagine a car. Normal, four-wheel, passenger. It was invented and manufactured in order to quickly and comfortably move the owner to where he would need. She is beautiful and comfortable.…

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Stop manipulating
When a child cannot get what he wants, he begins to act up, be offended and make hysterics - in this way, he forces his parents to submit to their…

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Why does a man need a woman and a family?

The question of marriage can and should be viewed from different angles. Let’s start with clarification – what kind of man are we talking about? For example, a young man who grew up in the tenacious embrace of an imperious mother – why does he need a family? Or a man who has gone through three marriages that collapsed because of his unbearable jealousy – why should he? Or just a guy in love from a family with strong ancestral traditions – what drives him? There are many options. But still, some points can be summarized. Continue reading

Feeling

Here the sphere of the irrational begins, which is more difficult to describe – there is nothing to talk about and there is no internal logic that could be clarified, therefore in two words. We can say that the sensation is responsible for the direct perception of the surrounding world with the help of real organs of sense. And therefore the feeling type is wholly absorbed by those impulses that come to it in all sorts of sensations, from without or from within. Continue reading

Psychology of love

It’s time for another provocative topic. To argue about love with a serious air would be to succumb to the general insanity on a donut hole, so we add a little pepper and irony to our conversation. Let’s talk about love and try to figure out what kind of crap it is, and why there are so many problems from it in life.

At one time, this topic was already considered, but there it was about friendship, and the conclusion was this: there is a good attitude towards a person, there is sympathy, there is respect, and there is such an abstract and naively elevated category – “friendship”, which is nothing else as the neurotic reciprocity of two infantilities. Continue reading

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How to build and save healthy relationship
We briefly reviewed the theoretical issues of the relationship between men and women. Beginners refer to the already published articles: “Husbands and lovers are two types of men,” “What does…

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Relationship psychology
As promised, I spread the record of the seminar on relations, which was held in 2011 in St. Petersburg and Moscow. Unfortunately, at that time there was still no decent…

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How to save a relationship?
First, a little offtopic, and then to the stated topic. It's hard to be a perfectionist — all or nothing, and nothing else. We have to slow down, persuade ourselves…

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Talk to each other
Another rule, just as important and fundamental as the ability to keep a distance - learn to talk with each other. Do not plop, do not gossip, do not discuss…

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