Stop manipulating
When a child cannot get what he wants, he begins to act up, be offended and make hysterics - in this way, he forces his parents to submit to their…

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A man in the life of a woman - based on the movie / f Gone with the wave
All of us - both men and women - bear the imprint of our upbringing. And since such luck rarely happens, so that parents could grow a healthy harmonious personality…

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Finally, oh good
Did you notice that every time I put the normality in quotes? This is because the rule I'm talking about is not. This is the same norm, as if all…

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completely irrational scale

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Relationships need to learn

How do we act in a new situation? Can we take new circumstances from scratch? Can we take the new conditions of the game with all the care and openness of the child, who still has no experience? Can we enter a new river every time? Usually – no.

The older we get, the more agitated our view of what is happening around. We perceive everything new through the prism of the old, depriving ourselves of the sensations of freshness and novelty. So begins old age – at the very moment when life ceases to bring surprises. Continue reading

What is true friendship?

First of all, you need to remember that there is no “friendship”. That is, there are relationships between people that can be characterized in some way, and there is a tradition to call a certain type of relationship friendship. But there is no independent entity called “friendship”. There are only real living relationships, without names and clear outlines. Continue reading

The main farewell to women

When a woman behaves like a woman, a man is forced to behave like a man.

Add after that, and nothing special. Every woman wants to be weak – in the sense of not doing anything, not be held accountable for anything, but be able to fulfill all her desires. But for healthy strong relationships, strength is needed. Only this force must be directed not at the direction of your man, not at manipulation and butting, but at being a woman. Continue reading

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Reflection theory
We continue the conversation on the theme of the value of relationships and closeness mentioned in the last article. Read, if you have not read yet, otherwise it will not…

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How to save a relationship?
First, a little offtopic, and then to the stated topic. It's hard to be a perfectionist — all or nothing, and nothing else. We have to slow down, persuade ourselves…

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Submit to a man
I avoided this film for about two years - the actor who plays the main role there is very unsympathetic to me. How did it happen that after all I…

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Meaning of life
Since we are talking about relationships, it is not the time and the place to dive deep into the philosophy of the meaning of life. Therefore, in the jungle we…

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