Do children need love?
Well, a little spontaneous vacation is over. We return to our neurotic and psychological sheep. The other day I received an interesting letter from one of the readers. She talks…

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Keep your personal territory
Another common and destructive delusion is that a man and a woman in a love relationship should do everything together, sleep in the same bed, have no secrets and generally…

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How to stop suffering parting with a man?
How to learn not to react painfully to a person who was dear, and then you did very badly in life? At least not to cry, seeing a nickname on…

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behind them lies a deeper

Finally, oh good

Did you notice that every time I put the normality in quotes? This is because the rule I’m talking about is not. This is the same norm, as if all people on Earth cut off one leg – then one-legged immediately starts to seem normal, because everyone has it. With psychological “normality” the story is exactly the same. With rare exceptions, we are all around – mental disabilities of varying degrees, who have agreed among themselves, to consider their disability a natural norm. Continue reading

Why does a man need a woman and a family?

The question of marriage can and should be viewed from different angles. Let’s start with clarification – what kind of man are we talking about? For example, a young man who grew up in the tenacious embrace of an imperious mother – why does he need a family? Or a man who has gone through three marriages that collapsed because of his unbearable jealousy – why should he? Or just a guy in love from a family with strong ancestral traditions – what drives him? There are many options. But still, some points can be summarized. Continue reading

Husbands and Lovers – male psychology

The subject of psychological types is wide and ambiguous. What a complicated system you don’t think up, there will always be plenty of counter-arguments and exceptional cases. And nevertheless, there is some benefit from typing – it gives you the opportunity to better embrace the whole, grouping the particular into several key categories. The main thing is to remember that any such scheme is a convention, a tool, and not an end in itself. Continue reading

Women's pendulum of pride and worthlessness
We have already talked about the problem of pride and insignificance in an article about the structure of social relations. I hope you read it, otherwise, some turns of the…

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Willingness to lose
So, how can a man respond to a woman for the help that is described in the last article? First of all, you need to understand that a woman is…

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Stop manipulating
When a child cannot get what he wants, he begins to act up, be offended and make hysterics - in this way, he forces his parents to submit to their…

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Relationship psychology
As promised, I spread the record of the seminar on relations, which was held in 2011 in St. Petersburg and Moscow. Unfortunately, at that time there was still no decent…

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