Reflection theory
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Relationship for relationship
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Woman in the life of a man – by motive Angel-A

In a series of articles on the relationship between a man and a woman, one important topic is omitted, which requires some kind of mental preparation to understand. I deliberately did not hurry with her, because out of context and without proper illustration she could cause too much resistance.

Now a certain foundation has been formed, an illustration has been found, and you can get to the bottom line. Using the example of the film Angel-A, we will look at the relationship between a man and a woman from a new angle.

Until now, all articles on relationships have been focused on showing how to make existing relationships at least acceptable and not let them fall apart. But by and large, all this is the salvation of an already sinking ship. When relations are based only on mutual satisfaction of children’s desires, then relations remain at the children’s level – they do not bring development, but, on the contrary, block it.

A couple of times in the articles it has already been mentioned that a partner needs to be grown, what to expect when happiness will fall into its own hands is the height of naivety. Next to us is always the one whom we deserve, and in order to go to the next level, you need to make some efforts, and not just sit and wait.

It has also been said that a man and a woman can be the best psychologists for each other. They can, yes – it remains only to clarify how, and what it all means. This article will discuss who a woman can be for a man, how a woman can grow a man, help him grow up.

The reverse side of the question – a man in the life of a woman – will be considered separately, maybe even in the next article. Especially since there was a good illustration for her too.

There is no injustice in the fact that a woman should make an effort to grow a man, no. It is unfairly just the opposite when a woman waits for the man to fall at her feet and bring her happiness for the mere right to be around.

Unfortunately, words like “must / should” have to be used, which can be understood very differently. In fact, of course, no one owes anything to anyone. When I say that a woman “should” make efforts to help her man grow up, only inevitability is meant: if a woman wants to be happy with a man, she will have to make efforts to grow him.

So, we turn, in fact, to the illustration. To make it clear what was going on, I recommend that you first watch the movie, and only then read on. Although, maybe in the reverse order it will look even better, especially since there is no special intrigue that could not be revealed. Decide for yourself.

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