Willingness to lose
So, how can a man respond to a woman for the help that is described in the last article?
First of all, you need to understand that a woman is not an enemy. Remember where we started? Each of us is a product of education and those circumstances that put pressure on us. To understand the absurdity of installations driven into one’s head, one must go a long way and fill up many cones. Therefore, it is not necessary to blame the woman for what she is, what she is, and she does not need to take revenge for it.
All that a man has to offer a woman is the fulcrum that will help her turn her world around … if she wants it and is ready for it. But for this, a man must overcome his own snotiness and become tough enough to withstand the pressure of a female craving for power over a man.
In fact, a woman seeks to subjugate the will of a man. This happens completely naturally and unconsciously, but this is the wormhole that then destroys the relationship. A woman wins power over a man drop by drop, and at first a man is only happy to serve her – he loves her!
Instead, a man should give a woman a click on the nose for each of its encroachments and at all costs to preserve its right to seniority in a relationship. But here men usually give in, because it’s more important to keep the relationship. And women easily mate in two moves – “If you want to be with me – obey.” And men rarely have enough spirit to set the same conditions – a bird is a pity …
A man should be ready to lose a woman at any time. Only in this way can he keep control of the situation. If not, he is gone, and the woman is once again convinced that she is worthy of the best.
Call me master!
Who is the head in this house
The film, of course, shows an extreme version of bringing a woman to her senses – it could only work on a desert island, where a woman really is in physical dependence on a man. In other conditions, nothing would have happened – they would not have approached each other with a cannon shot.
In ordinary life, everything happens less dramatically – after all, relationships are built by people who are like each other and are set up to try and at least somehow try to establish these relationships. And if there is at least some skill in negotiating with each other, then it may not be possible to get at all to force measures and ultimatums.
The main thing for both of them is to catch the essence. Typically, a woman seeks to fully satisfy their pride. It seems to her – that is, she was taught to think so – that when all the whims are fulfilled, then she will experience the happiness and peace that are written in romance novels.
And as long as a woman believes in the validity of this logic, there is little that can help her – if only an uninhabited island and a man with a strong character to boot. While a woman relies on her pride, it makes no sense to try to break something in her – relationships will break much earlier.
As a man should want to grow up himself, so a woman should burn herself three times and herself understand that the pursuit of the satisfaction of pride leads her to hell, and not to heaven. Only then, taking on the work and responsibility of being a senior in a relationship, can a man be able to help her escape from the swamp of eternal dissatisfaction.
With regard to specific practical activities, I specifically do not tell. This is an individual matter, and it is too easy to break firewood by giving some general advice. It is more important to convey the mood – the man must learn to be the master of the situation, and the woman must be near, but half a step behind. It can be perceived as a game, as a training, as you like – but you definitely need to feel it both of you.
The main focus of mutual cultivation is that by growing each other, a man and a woman grow up themselves. To help a man grow up, a woman must temper her pride. To help a woman cope with pride, a man must grow up. – That is the meaning of cooperation between a man and a woman.