Sense of relationship
So, the problem is as follows. Human life has some meaning, and this meaning is definitely not about finding your soul mate and building relationships with it. The nature of our soul, which seeks reunification with a lost part of itself, gives importance to this line of social life, but the nature of our complexes and fears that want to find support and comfort in another person. The goal of a typical love relationship is to get rid of the heartache generated by a poisonous sense of inferiority.
And if we talk about how everything could be, if it were not for the complexes that ruled the ball, the relationship would never become an end in itself and the meaning of life. Normally, relationships should be woven into the natural course of life, and not replace it with yourself. Women love this game very much – to fill the whole life of a man or, even worse, make a man leave his life and his values for the sake of a woman with her goals and desires. And in a good way, relationships should be built around something that is important and interesting to both besides relationships and love cooing, and this should be the link between them – the sharing of a common lifestyle, common values, common purpose, common passion.
The trouble is that for many people in life there is nothing at all that they really would be important not at the level of complexes, but at the level of spiritual needs, and then love relationships become the last refuge from the feeling of emptiness and meaninglessness of their existence. And this suggests that your path has long been lost and a person from a higher being turned into a cow … and it’s good if this is a country dairy cow, walking on beautiful meadows, and then you can gossip at the meat factory.
If there is nothing important in life, there is no sense, there is no passion of its own, then time is wasted. And the relationship here can not save the situation – they only aggravate it, allowing you to forget in the romantic illusions and problems that arise in these very relationships. Relations for the sake of relationships are possible, but this is the worst possible scenario, and it is in such relationships that the most problems are because the partners are beginning to demand the impossible from each other – to subjugate their lives to relationships, to change for the sake of relationships.
But to the question “What are you ready for for the sake of relationships?” There is only one correct answer – “To everything, whatever, in addition to sacrifice yourself and your sense of life.”