Keep your distance
This is the most important rule from which all others follow. When a man and a woman enter into a new relationship, they have an uncharted territory for each other.…

Continue reading →

Dating without snot!
A year ago, we had an idea here with a dating site “for introverts” and in general for people who are interested in psychology and the development of consciousness. There…

Continue reading →

Keep your personal territory
Another common and destructive delusion is that a man and a woman in a love relationship should do everything together, sleep in the same bed, have no secrets and generally…

Continue reading →

The main farewell to women

When a woman behaves like a woman, a man is forced to behave like a man.

Add after that, and nothing special. Every woman wants to be weak – in the sense of not doing anything, not be held accountable for anything, but be able to fulfill all her desires. But for healthy strong relationships, strength is needed. Only this force must be directed not at the direction of your man, not at manipulation and butting, but at being a woman.

The strength of a woman is in her weakness – so they say, and this is close to the truth … if you correctly understand these words. If a woman wants to maintain her relationship with a man, she should be able to retreat to the background in time and take the position of the “weak”. But in order to do this, a woman needs strength and readiness to step on the throat of her song.

Believe it – you want to argue, but only by learning to give in to your man, can a woman be truly happy. And the point, by and large, is not a concession, as such, but the fact that for her this is the only way to conquer her pride and solve all the problems that it generates at once. Without this, a woman will never have a normal relationship or peace of mind.

Therefore, dear and beautiful women, learn to say to your man “Yes, honey.” This does not detract from your dignity and your self-worth. All you need is to learn to accept the male choice and stop running ahead of the engine.

If you do not do this, if you allow yourself to get the better of a man – and in this you are strong! – you cut down the branch on which you sit. Yes, a man should be strong and should be able to put a woman in place, but such men do not fall from the sky and, usually, the place next to them is never empty. Behind every strong man stands a strong woman who has managed to be weak for him and, thereby, made him strong.

That is the main wisdom of a woman – you need to grow your man. Show him that he is strong and teach him to use this power. There are no weak men, there are only those who have forgotten about their masculine essence. And it is a woman who can awaken this essence in a man.

So stop waiting for life from a freebie. No matter how high your opinion of yourself is, you will not have an adult man next to you until you learn to be women – soft, flexible, strong and wise. And then you look around, and it’s necessary – next to you is a man you never dreamed of.

p. s.

All these recommendations make sense only under one indispensable condition – they should be followed together. If “by the rules” someone will play one, the second will use it for the good of their own problems, and in the end everything will become even worse. Therefore, do not try to immediately apply everything to yourself if your relationship has long been out of control. The establishment of already destroyed, but still ongoing relations, the topic is completely separate and to this article, no relationship.

Finally, oh good
Did you notice that every time I put the normality in quotes? This is because the rule I'm talking about is not. This is the same norm, as if all…

...

The main farewell to women
When a woman behaves like a woman, a man is forced to behave like a man. Add after that, and nothing special. Every woman wants to be weak - in…

...

Interesting patterns
Once again I pay attention that each person has all four functions and functions normally. The difference between the types is that one of the functions turns out to be…

...

Reflection theory
We continue the conversation on the theme of the value of relationships and closeness mentioned in the last article. Read, if you have not read yet, otherwise it will not…

...