The main farewell to men
For no reason, under any circumstances – no matter how hard you may be – do not allow yourself to seek pity and solace from your woman. No matter how much one wants to, no matter how much one wants to fall into warm female embraces and plunge into the ocean of female spiritual warmth – do not do this.
With all his spiritual experiences a man must cope himself. As soon as a man begins to complain about the life of a woman, as soon as he turns to her for understanding and comfort, she immediately feels not understood. And if she does not give such a turn to the man, it means that soon she will sit on his neck and drive them into her feminine pleasure.
You can discuss matters, share experiences and consult with a woman, but God forbid, start to seek solace. Even if a woman, in her naivety, wants to feel sorry for you, this cannot be allowed – “Thank you, dear, for your support, but now I have to cope with my problems myself”.
Clench your teeth, but once and for all get rid of the habit of seeing a woman in a mother who will listen, understand, regret and guide you on the right path. By perceiving a woman in this way, you block the development of your masculine qualities in yourself and return to the state of the child, and you start a relationship in a deaf dead end.
Do you know the essence of impotence? – Mother does not excite. It is a man’s self-pity and desire to find solace in his beloved woman, they erase from the relationship all eroticism. There comes a time when a man, even if you burst, no longer wants his woman, and she has been thinking about a lover for a long time. And trips to the doctors here will not help.
If you can’t stop feeling sorry for yourself – don’t even hang your pitifulness on a woman. Lick your spiritual wounds alone, and return to the woman with a firm gait.
Learn to make decisions for yourself and, when you need it, for both of you. Do not look into the eyes of a woman in search of an answer – find the courage to make a decision on your own. Take responsibility for yourself. Risk – even if not all solutions will be optimal. Only in this way can a man maintain his strength and freedom in a relationship, and allow a woman to finally be a woman.