Whatever the relationship in the family, the first experience of communicating with a woman for the future of a man is his relationship with his mother. It is often said that a man chooses a woman like a mother, and so it is. But to this observation you need to add one very important detail, which usually remains unheeded.
The main similarity with the mother, which the man is looking for in his women, does not concern his appearance, character and habits, but the feeling of security and peace that he felt under maternal care. Continue reading
How do we act in a new situation? Can we take new circumstances from scratch? Can we take the new conditions of the game with all the care and openness of the child, who still has no experience? Can we enter a new river every time? Usually – no.
The older we get, the more agitated our view of what is happening around. We perceive everything new through the prism of the old, depriving ourselves of the sensations of freshness and novelty. So begins old age – at the very moment when life ceases to bring surprises. Continue reading
Men are friends a little differently. The basis of friendships is still the same emotional mutual assistance as women, but the principles of male honor and devotion are added to it.
Here it must be said that honor and loyalty are the same virtual concepts as love and friendship. There is no point in them either. It’s just a set of rules, which since childhood is instilled in men and becomes sacred to them. Continue reading
First of all, you need to remember that there is no “friendship”. That is, there are relationships between people that can be characterized in some way, and there is a tradition to call a certain type of relationship friendship. But there is no independent entity called “friendship”. There are only real living relationships, without names and clear outlines. Continue reading
When a woman behaves like a woman, a man is forced to behave like a man.
Add after that, and nothing special. Every woman wants to be weak – in the sense of not doing anything, not be held accountable for anything, but be able to fulfill all her desires. But for healthy strong relationships, strength is needed. Only this force must be directed not at the direction of your man, not at manipulation and butting, but at being a woman. Continue reading