Interesting patterns
Once again I pay attention that each person has all four functions and functions normally. The difference between the types is that one of the functions turns out to be…

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Keep your personal territory
Another common and destructive delusion is that a man and a woman in a love relationship should do everything together, sleep in the same bed, have no secrets and generally…

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Relationship for relationship
Imagine a car. Normal, four-wheel, passenger. It was invented and manufactured in order to quickly and comfortably move the owner to where he would need. She is beautiful and comfortable.…

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How to save a relationship?

First, a little offtopic, and then to the stated topic.

It’s hard to be a perfectionist — all or nothing, and nothing else. We have to slow down, persuade ourselves that, they say, it will do so, but there is always that border that cannot be crossed – the minimum acceptable quality level of the work done, without which the work is considered not done at all. Continue reading

About building relationships

Vacation is over. If someone misses, you can read the trip report on the forum, here: travel notes. Slowly back to work.

The advantage of such trips is that among other things it happens to meet and get close to ordinary people – not psychologists and not patients – and see how they live. Sometimes it is thought-provoking. Continue reading

Willingness to lose
So, how can a man respond to a woman for the help that is described in the last article? First of all, you need to understand that a woman is…

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Finally, oh good
Did you notice that every time I put the normality in quotes? This is because the rule I'm talking about is not. This is the same norm, as if all…

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Accept without conviction
We return to the plot of the film. The next significant moment is how a woman shows a man his misses. She does it very correctly - hard, but without…

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Do children need love?
Well, a little spontaneous vacation is over. We return to our neurotic and psychological sheep. The other day I received an interesting letter from one of the readers. She talks…

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