Keep your personal territory
Another common and destructive delusion is that a man and a woman in a love relationship should do everything together, sleep in the same bed, have no secrets and generally…

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Interesting patterns
Once again I pay attention that each person has all four functions and functions normally. The difference between the types is that one of the functions turns out to be…

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Submit to a man
I avoided this film for about two years - the actor who plays the main role there is very unsympathetic to me. How did it happen that after all I…

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the subject of sympathy

Dating without snot!

A year ago, we had an idea here with a dating site “for introverts” and in general for people who are interested in psychology and the development of consciousness. There were a lot of people willing to participate, and questions about the fate of this venture are regularly asked so far.

Unfortunately, to launch a completely independent platform for this kind of dating did not work. That is, it practically turned out, but it required a very large investment of time and money already at the stage of arrangement and would require even more for further maintenance. Continue reading

For whom women dress up?

All modern psychology began with the discovery that a person from the inside may not be at all what he is without. Poorly perceived motives, desires, hopes and tendencies affect a person’s behavior much more than this could be imagined. The belief that conscious control is able to overcome internal currents and act against them, in practice, is completely inconsistent – the inner and deep is always stronger and always wins, because the inner is the foundation for the outer, and not vice versa. And it is the inner content that characterizes a person most accurately. Continue reading

About building relationships
Vacation is over. If someone misses, you can read the trip report on the forum, here: travel notes. Slowly back to work. The advantage of such trips is that among…

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Talk to each other
Another rule, just as important and fundamental as the ability to keep a distance - learn to talk with each other. Do not plop, do not gossip, do not discuss…

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How to save a relationship?
First, a little offtopic, and then to the stated topic. It's hard to be a perfectionist — all or nothing, and nothing else. We have to slow down, persuade ourselves…

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Why dating sites does not work?
Because they all do wrong! No, they, of course, work - in the same sense in which probability theory promises that a flock of monkeys seated behind typewriters for a…

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