Keep your personal territory
Another common and destructive delusion is that a man and a woman in a love relationship should do everything together, sleep in the same bed, have no secrets and generally…

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Relationships need to learn
How do we act in a new situation? Can we take new circumstances from scratch? Can we take the new conditions of the game with all the care and openness…

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Relationship for relationship
Imagine a car. Normal, four-wheel, passenger. It was invented and manufactured in order to quickly and comfortably move the owner to where he would need. She is beautiful and comfortable.…

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the subject of sympathy

Dating without snot!

A year ago, we had an idea here with a dating site “for introverts” and in general for people who are interested in psychology and the development of consciousness. There were a lot of people willing to participate, and questions about the fate of this venture are regularly asked so far.

Unfortunately, to launch a completely independent platform for this kind of dating did not work. That is, it practically turned out, but it required a very large investment of time and money already at the stage of arrangement and would require even more for further maintenance. Continue reading

For whom women dress up?

All modern psychology began with the discovery that a person from the inside may not be at all what he is without. Poorly perceived motives, desires, hopes and tendencies affect a person’s behavior much more than this could be imagined. The belief that conscious control is able to overcome internal currents and act against them, in practice, is completely inconsistent – the inner and deep is always stronger and always wins, because the inner is the foundation for the outer, and not vice versa. And it is the inner content that characterizes a person most accurately. Continue reading

Take care of each other and your relationship
When you buy a new car, do you arrange your personal crash test for it? No, you blow dust from it, polish it, refuel it with the best gasoline, take…

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Male friendship
Men are friends a little differently. The basis of friendships is still the same emotional mutual assistance as women, but the principles of male honor and devotion are added to…

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Do children need love?
Well, a little spontaneous vacation is over. We return to our neurotic and psychological sheep. The other day I received an interesting letter from one of the readers. She talks…

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Why dating sites does not work?
Because they all do wrong! No, they, of course, work - in the same sense in which probability theory promises that a flock of monkeys seated behind typewriters for a…

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