What is true friendship?
First of all, you need to remember that there is no “friendship”. That is, there are relationships between people that can be characterized in some way, and there is a…

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Talk to each other
Another rule, just as important and fundamental as the ability to keep a distance - learn to talk with each other. Do not plop, do not gossip, do not discuss…

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Submit to a man
I avoided this film for about two years - the actor who plays the main role there is very unsympathetic to me. How did it happen that after all I…

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part of itself

Jealousy and other troubles

Take jealousy, for example. It is easy to understand that behind all jealousy is still the same inferiority complex – the fear of remaining in humiliating loneliness, if the partner prefers someone else. And because of this, I so want to bind him to myself by any means possible – insults, scandals, pressure on the conscience and other manipulations. In war, all means are good. Continue reading

Sense of relationship

So, the problem is as follows. Human life has some meaning, and this meaning is definitely not about finding your soul mate and building relationships with it. The nature of our soul, which seeks reunification with a lost part of itself, gives importance to this line of social life, but the nature of our complexes and fears that want to find support and comfort in another person. The goal of a typical love relationship is to get rid of the heartache generated by a poisonous sense of inferiority. Continue reading

Psychological types - female logic and male bastard
The topic of psychological types was postponed but not forgotten. What we have already discussed before is not even the most interesting, because it is too abstract. And the greatest…

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Relationship psychology
As promised, I spread the record of the seminar on relations, which was held in 2011 in St. Petersburg and Moscow. Unfortunately, at that time there was still no decent…

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How to stop suffering parting with a man?
How to learn not to react painfully to a person who was dear, and then you did very badly in life? At least not to cry, seeing a nickname on…

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How to save a relationship?
First, a little offtopic, and then to the stated topic. It's hard to be a perfectionist — all or nothing, and nothing else. We have to slow down, persuade ourselves…

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