just the most appropriate relationship
Another common and destructive delusion is that a man and a woman in a love relationship should do everything together, sleep in the same bed, have no secrets and generally belong to one another completely.
Yes, at the initial stage of the relationship, you do not want to break away from each other for a minute. Friends, work, hobbies – everything is put aside, just to be together. It may be romantic, but squeezing each other immediately and dry is dangerous. To reduce the whole meaning of life to a relationship with even the most beautiful person means to lose touch with reality. Continue reading
Here the sphere of the irrational begins, which is more difficult to describe – there is nothing to talk about and there is no internal logic that could be clarified, therefore in two words. We can say that the sensation is responsible for the direct perception of the surrounding world with the help of real organs of sense. And therefore the feeling type is wholly absorbed by those impulses that come to it in all sorts of sensations, from without or from within. Continue reading
If someone parallel between the love of things and love for a person seems to be incompetent, he goes to the forest simply does not want to give up his self-deception. It is very convenient to assume that love for a person is something fundamentally different. You can fantasize so much for yourself, you can suffer with such pleasure because of the absence of “true love” in your life, and with what benefit you can change your “true love” for all kinds of personal services and psychological strokes! Continue reading