About building relationships
Vacation is over. If someone misses, you can read the trip report on the forum, here: travel notes. Slowly back to work. The advantage of such trips is that among…

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For whom women dress up?
All modern psychology began with the discovery that a person from the inside may not be at all what he is without. Poorly perceived motives, desires, hopes and tendencies affect…

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The main farewell to women
When a woman behaves like a woman, a man is forced to behave like a man. Add after that, and nothing special. Every woman wants to be weak - in…

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drags behind

Male look at a woman

Whatever the relationship in the family, the first experience of communicating with a woman for the future of a man is his relationship with his mother. It is often said that a man chooses a woman like a mother, and so it is. But to this observation you need to add one very important detail, which usually remains unheeded.

The main similarity with the mother, which the man is looking for in his women, does not concern his appearance, character and habits, but the feeling of security and peace that he felt under maternal care. Continue reading

Relationships need to learn

How do we act in a new situation? Can we take new circumstances from scratch? Can we take the new conditions of the game with all the care and openness of the child, who still has no experience? Can we enter a new river every time? Usually – no.

The older we get, the more agitated our view of what is happening around. We perceive everything new through the prism of the old, depriving ourselves of the sensations of freshness and novelty. So begins old age – at the very moment when life ceases to bring surprises. Continue reading

Keep your personal territory

Another common and destructive delusion is that a man and a woman in a love relationship should do everything together, sleep in the same bed, have no secrets and generally belong to one another completely.

Yes, at the initial stage of the relationship, you do not want to break away from each other for a minute. Friends, work, hobbies – everything is put aside, just to be together. It may be romantic, but squeezing each other immediately and dry is dangerous. To reduce the whole meaning of life to a relationship with even the most beautiful person means to lose touch with reality. Continue reading

Why does a man need a woman and a family?
The question of marriage can and should be viewed from different angles. Let's start with clarification - what kind of man are we talking about? For example, a young man…

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Do children need love?
Well, a little spontaneous vacation is over. We return to our neurotic and psychological sheep. The other day I received an interesting letter from one of the readers. She talks…

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Man and woman
When a man talks about women's subordination, for women it always causes a grin - “Aha, Right!” And this is not surprising. Even in order to simply think about this…

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What is true friendship?
First of all, you need to remember that there is no “friendship”. That is, there are relationships between people that can be characterized in some way, and there is a…

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