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Male look at a woman
Whatever the relationship in the family, the first experience of communicating with a woman for the future of a man is his relationship with his mother. It is often said that a man chooses a woman like a mother, and so it is. But to this observation you need to add one very important detail, which usually remains unheeded.
The main similarity with the mother, which the man is looking for in his women, does not concern his appearance, character and habits, but the feeling of security and peace that he felt under maternal care. Continue reading
Relationships need to learn
How do we act in a new situation? Can we take new circumstances from scratch? Can we take the new conditions of the game with all the care and openness of the child, who still has no experience? Can we enter a new river every time? Usually – no.
The older we get, the more agitated our view of what is happening around. We perceive everything new through the prism of the old, depriving ourselves of the sensations of freshness and novelty. So begins old age – at the very moment when life ceases to bring surprises. Continue reading
Keep your personal territory
Another common and destructive delusion is that a man and a woman in a love relationship should do everything together, sleep in the same bed, have no secrets and generally belong to one another completely.
Yes, at the initial stage of the relationship, you do not want to break away from each other for a minute. Friends, work, hobbies – everything is put aside, just to be together. It may be romantic, but squeezing each other immediately and dry is dangerous. To reduce the whole meaning of life to a relationship with even the most beautiful person means to lose touch with reality. Continue reading
