Did you notice that every time I put the normality in quotes? This is because the rule I’m talking about is not. This is the same norm, as if all people on Earth cut off one leg – then one-legged immediately starts to seem normal, because everyone has it. With psychological “normality” the story is exactly the same. With rare exceptions, we are all around – mental disabilities of varying degrees, who have agreed among themselves, to consider their disability a natural norm. Continue reading
The question of marriage can and should be viewed from different angles. Let’s start with clarification – what kind of man are we talking about? For example, a young man who grew up in the tenacious embrace of an imperious mother – why does he need a family? Or a man who has gone through three marriages that collapsed because of his unbearable jealousy – why should he? Or just a guy in love from a family with strong ancestral traditions – what drives him? There are many options. But still, some points can be summarized. Continue reading
The second pole of the pendulum makes a woman look for a different type of relationship. Here the spiritual qualities of the chosen one come to the fore – the ability to empathize, constancy, loyalty, care, predictability and the like. This man is responsible for loving the woman.
In a relationship with the “lover” there is passion, admiration, playfulness, and for some time these feelings are enough to believe in mutual love. But the intensity and heat of these emotions implies that they burn through as quickly as they arise. There is no that eternal love that every woman dreams of. Continue reading